Product Review: Date Night Game

Foreplay Must Happen

fore·play 

   [fawr-pley, fohr-] 

noun

sexual stimulation of one's partner, usually as a prelude to sexual intercourse

One of the BEST parts about my job is educating and empowering women about their bodies. If we don't know what, where, and how to get ourselves in the mood and climaxing, how can we expect someone else to? Foreplay is a great place to start making your needs known and is really FUN! (Yes, I said it, foreplay is fun!)

Did you know that your brain is your BIGGEST sex organ?

So, if we're not feeling it here,

 

We're definitely not feeling it here!

Now, be honest, how much time does your partner spend stimulating your brain when it's time for sex?

Little to none, right?! 

If our brains are not in the game, how can we expect our bodies to respond, become aroused, and start lubricating? 

Before you get discouraged, I have GREAT news!!! 

Pure Romance has its very own FOREPLAY line! (Whew, sigh of relief!)

Today, I will only share one of the products! 

DATE NIGHT GAME

What better way to introduce a little foreplay than with a card game!?!

The sexy Date Night Game was developed by Patty Brisben, the founder of Pure Romance, to give couples new ways to slow down & reconnect. Action & conversation cards give you permission to do what you've always wanted to do and to ask what you've always wanted to know. 

***TMI ALERT***

After being with someone for a while, you tend to fall into a routine--sex routine included. It's kiss here, rub there, honk those, flick that, bada bing, bada boom, and you're finished! Needless to say, it has happened in my relationship as well--I know The Pro's strategic course of action to get me on board his ship. So, I thought what better way to change up our routine than with a new foreplay game & product review!?! (Two birds my dear!)

The Pro and I decided to stay at home and have a few drinks one night this week. I pretty much annoyed him into playing with me. With a beer in hand, we set up our game on the couch. We shuffled up the deck of cards, keeping out the 'PASS' cards, each getting three of those, and cut the deck in half--one for me & one for my man!

Being the chivalrous gentleman he is, The Pro let me go first. Our first card was a 'Tell Me...' card. The Pro had to tell me what he thought about adult films. Next, he pulled out an 'Action Card Girl', which directed me to get into sexy lingerie.  

The Pro's thoughts on this game quickly changed! 

We went through 4-6 more cards--tell me what you think about multiple orgasms, french kiss for one minute, kiss your partners neck for one minute, try a new position for one minute.

 *Note: The Pro and I decided to save the new position for the end of the game because we thought once we got started, we wouldn't want to stop. Maybe that's how the game is supposed to work, to build up the anticipation, I don't know. 

Next, The Pro drew a 'Action Card Guy' that told him to find my g-spot, which does exsist, but that's another post! It also said, "It's about the journey, not the destination." I was very intrigued! I wasn't sure if The Pro knew exactly where to find my g-spot, as we had never talked about it. Don't get me wrong, I've had multiple g-spot orgasms, I just didn't know if he knew that's what was happening.  

We took that time to act on the 'Tell Me...' cards! We did a little necking & kissing. The Pro then started his journey with his tongue. As the trip got more intense, he decided it was best to let his fingers take over. The Pro got us to our destination and was very giving!   HelllllllooooOOOOO multiple orgasms! 

To show my appreciation, I proceeded to de-clothe and lube him up for our new position!  

My g-spot seemed to be the theme of the night! We both ended the night very pleased! 

Being that we only got through 12-15 cards of the Date Night Game, we will be playing again! We both found the game very enjoyable and an awesome way to ask things without feeling uncomfortable or making things awkward. I recommend this game be on/in everyone's nightstand! 

You can purchase your very own Date Night Game ($19) via my website www.jessicahightower.pureromance.com, or shoot me an email, text, or call! 

Saint Patty's Day Special

Today Only

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Pure Romance by Jessica is offering a 

ONE DAY ONLY DEAL!

 Coochy (Pink Cupcake) + Pulsa Bath Ball = $32 
(Orginally $40)

Boost (Sugar Cookie) + Magic Fingers = $55 
(Originally $69)

Whipped (Orange Creamsicle) + Super Stretch Lips = $38 (Originally $47)

Pure Silk + Magic Moment = $36

(Originally $45)

Contact Me Today To Take Advantage Of This 

St. Patty's Day Sale!

(You can find my contact information on the right side of the blog, in the black sidebar.)

I've Found A Love

Today's post is a little different! 

I wanted to share a VERY HAPPY story with you! 

Today in History: March, 16, 2010

Three years ago today, a spark was ignited, a crush began. Flirting was ever-present, as were butterflies! Now, I'm not going to make a big deal about my tummy flutters because...dead people, old people, even furniture would get butterflies if they met this guy! The Pro made me laugh! I was attracted to his attraction to me--the way he smiled for instance, whenever he saw me, that goofy kind of grin, the one that hijacks the face of the helplessly smitten--was genuine and heart-warming!

Our like for one another grew daily! I really thought it was that can't-eat, can't-sleep, reach-for-the-stars, over-the-fence, World-Series kind of stuff. You know the feeling, when it's the bottom of the ninth, the bases are loaded, and you know the next one's coming right down the middle. And then, you just connect--and for an instant, you know that it's going over the fence and out of the park--and further than you could ever imagine!

Words cannot describe the way I feel for this man! My love for The Pro has grown more than I ever would have known, more love than I thought was possible to ever give! He is my best friend, my confidante, my shoulder, my lover boy!

In the words of Edwin McCain,

When I fell, I fell hard for every part. From the beauty in his eyes to the little battle scars. The good, the bad, the happy and the sad. His perfections, his every little flaw. I WANT IT ALL!

This Girl Is On Fiiiiiiirrrreee!!

My first Pure Romance University class was this week in Charlotte. I wasn't sure what to expect--would this be a lecture class, would we Q & A it, would this be a waste of my time. 

As most of you know, Pure Romance is solely a woman's company! Our consultants, chemists, directors, producers, are all women! So why would training be any different?! As I entered the meeting room with a few of my PR Sisters, I was welcomed with loud, up-beat music, ladies dancing, and a whole lot a laughing! Never in my life have I been to a training that was free & FUN! 

Being the nerd I am, I took vigorous notes, while trying to attentively listen. I walked away from the meeting with my mind racing! In the 3 hours I was there, I gained priceless knowledge! We discussed rapport, follow-up, goals, sharing our businesses. I know, I know, common sense, right?! Yes, but it's the little things we tend to forget because we're so wrapped up in everything else going on. 

Goals. 

They've been on my mind all week!

If I want to excel in this business, it is necessary for me to sit down and actually make goals. Write them down. Say them out loud. Hang them up where I see them daily. 

Guilty as charged! I, too, am a quote nerd! I Google quotes on everything, so why not for my goals?!

"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not people or things." --Albert Einstein

Of course I want to be happy! So, to goal setting I went, or so I thought. 

In our meeting, we talked about having both short-term & long-term goals. I believe both are essential. All of my life, I've set nearly unattainable goals, because I wanted to push myself to make it there. Being that the goals were so far out of reach, I just gave up. I didn't want to do that with this business/life journey. I thought long and hard (no pun intended), and the following is what I came up with:

• Monthly: Be able to afford a manicure. 
• Monthly: Make enough money to pay the mortgage.
• Six Months In Business: Treat myself and The Pro to a couple massage. (The Pro doesn't know it yet. He is my biggest supporter and I would like to thank him! Sweet, right?!)
• Eights Months In Business: Saved enough money to attend Pure Romance's 20th Year Anniversary/World Conference 2013!
• A Year In Business: Steadily have parties 10 parties a month and repeat customers. 
• Three Years In Business: Be able to have the option of making Pure Romance by Jessica my full-time business! 

Attainable? Yes! Great goals? Yes!

As I looked back at my goals, another quote came to mind...

"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me?!"

No one. Period.

I'm sure down the road, I'll add more to my goal list. I think I'm off to a good start! 

With good goals, comes great success! 

"Success isn't a result of spontaneous combustion. you must set yourself on fire!"

So now, I leave you with one last quote, my MOTIVATOR!

"Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein."

It's Retirement Time!

In case you haven't heard...

BIRD IS THE WORD! 

SIKE! 

Pure Romance is having a NEW PRODUCT LAUNCH in APRIL 2013!!

So it's time to do a little Spring Cleaning for the NEW & IMPROVED products! The items listed below are only available while supplies last! Don't miss your chance to take advantage of these STEALS of a DEAL! Stock up while you can!

Kiss: Island Breeze & Plumeria

Originally $20

Now $15

Glow: Island Breeze & Plumeria

Originally $18

Now $10

Between the Sheets: Seductive Sage

Originally $15

Now $10

Serenity: Pomegranate Ginger

Originally $20

Now $15

Sensations: Cosmopolitan

Originally $16

Now $12

Whipped: Cinnamon Dolce

Originally $18

Now $12

Hop On It

Originally $12

Now $10

OH Zone

Originally $42

Now $35

Ocho Pinko

Originally $49

Now $40

The Legend

Originally $119

Now $75

Golden Girl

Originally $29

Now $20

Extra Credit

Originally $30

Now $20

Don't miss out on these fantastic prices!

Call, text, or email me today to order yours before they are all gone!

(All of my information can be found on the right hand side of the page, in the black boxes!)

Product Review: Just Like Me

It's been a very busy week at the Pure Romance by Jessica Headquarters!

Despite the late nights and running around, I actually enjoy being busy! (Especially when it lines my pockets!) 

Blogging is very new to me, as are product reviews. 

It's very easy for me to tell my best friend about a lubricant or a new toy I've tried, but the entire world?! A little intimidating!

I do believe, it is now time to put on my big girl pants and share with you some AMAZING products! 

I come from a background of selling--I've worked in the hospitality business for---EVER! Through that, I realized the best way to sell products--food, wine, lifestyle--is to taste it, smell it, immerse yourself in it! It's the same with EVERY product on the market! If you haven't tried it yourself, how can you give an opinion?! 

Before I started with Pure Romance, I was really worried about how The Pro would feel with his girlfriend starting her own SEX BUSINESS. Would he be embarrassed? Would he be supportive? Would this affect our relationship? Would it cause any problems?! These are serious questions, YOU KNOW?! 

Wouldn't you know, The Pro is my biggest supporter! He always asks how parties went, how my sales are, how much I'm making, all the important stuff! Not to mention, he loves helping out with product testing and reviewing! 

So, as promised, a PRODUCT REVIEW...

*****TMI ALERT***** 

The Pro and I haven't had the most active of sex lives lately, being that we are both swamped with work! Our nights usually consist of coming home, playing with the boys, and sitting on the couch to watch Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy! Exciting, I know?!? 

After some time, sitting on the couch gets uncomfortable. I do believe I have RBS--restless body syndrome! It was bond to happen sooner or later, I would have a wedgie from all of the movement. The Pro and I have an open relationship, very comfortable with one another, so I stuck my hand down the front of my pants and got the wedgie! 

The Pro, with his keen peripheral vision, just saw my hand go down the front of my pants. So he decided to take over--rubbing my clitoris, that is. And I didn't stop him! It only took a few minutes for me to get wet and ready to jump his bone! Before, I decided to climb on top, I thought, "Hey, we could try a new lube!! Woohoo!"  Over to my sex box I ran, grabbed the first lube my fingers touched, and promptly returned to my man! 

JUST LIKE ME

won the draw!

We both applied the lube to ourselves--great visual for one another! He applied a dime-nickel size amount to the shaft and head of his penis, and I a dime size amount into my vagina and labia. I then proceeded to mount him! 

Helllllllllllo Couch Sex! 

(For those of you who visit my house, the couches are clean!)

I will spare you the main details! 

We tousled around for quite some time. We both were pleased when we finished! 

Whew! For those of you who are still with me--the actual review!

Just Like Me is a water-based, re-wetting lubricant. Ladies, we all know our vaginas have a very delicate PH balance, and anything introduce to it will throw that balance off. Just Like Me is very similar to our natural vaginal secretions. The consistency is smooth and easy to control, as its very mild and gentle. The dispensing pump makes it ideal to use, less mess! 

I thought the lubricant was very light, almost as though I wasn't using a lubricant at all. (The Pro had the same feeling.) I would use this as an every day, run-of-the-mill lubricant. I really liked that Just Like Me stayed wet the entire duration of our play! This would be a great lubricant for someone who has never used anything before and would like to start--which I HIGHLY recommend!

Contact me today to order Just Like Me!

Limited Time Lingerie

Every lady could use another set of lingerie! Why wouldn't you stock up at these UNBELIEVABLY

low prices! These pieces won't last for long, once they sell-out, they'll be GONE!

Contact me today to order yours!

Eden $19

(Orginally: $49)

Find your paradise, a place where you tempt and are tempted to taste the forbidden fruit. Find you utopia, your nirvana, your Eden. This plum, two-piece set with black contrast include an underwire bra for blissful bounce and support while the removable garter straps lead to the Promised Land. (Stockings not included.) 

The Huntress $19

(Originally: $49)

Let you lust guide you in this sexy leopard print stretch mesh two-piece set. The Huntress includes an open cup bra and cheeky shorts that are accented with lace trim and a satin bow to make you irresistible to any target you wish to trap. 

The Suitor

(Originally: $49)

Not sure what to wear before you get down to business? Meet The Suitor, a blazer-style top that pays dividends! With a seductive neckline and double button front closure, this lacy boudoir item will make you want to work overtime. Matching thong included.

Enchantress $29

(Originally: $59)

Mirror, Mirror, on the wall, who's the fiercest of them all? The Enchantress, of course. Cast a spell with this stretch mess "Come hither" slip, equipped with a padded underwire to make you even more bewitching. The pinstripe fabric adds some class to your cauldron, while the removable garters and matching thong make you supernaturally sexy. 

Obsession $29

(Orginally: $59)

It started as a daydream. It grew to a fantasy. Now, it's an Obsession, and it's very, very real. This silky three-piece garter set with underwire bustier for extra lift will leave a lasting imprint on anyone's mind. The satin bow and mesh ruffle trim add coquettish detail to this flirty, candy-sweet little number. Comes with a matching thong for extra sex appeal.

New Business. New Blog.

Hello World Wide Web!

First, I would like to introduce myself and my business! Folks call me Jessica Hightower-->some prefer Jess--either way, I don't mind! I have a full-time job and have recently started my own business, thanks to a few very motivating peers! I love a good laugh, preferably one that come from deep inside the belly! I'll always try something once, mainly to say I've done it, but also to be able to form my own opinion. I'm thrilled to say that I'm in a VERY LOVING, LONG-LASTING relationship with a man too good for words! (For his privacy, I shall refer to him as 'The Pro' for numerous reasons!) We have been blessed with two wonderful puppies--Charlie & Howie--whom have us completely wrapped around those huge paws of theirs! 

Now to the MAIN reason for starting this blog--MY BUSINESS!

With the help of my 'PR Mom' and toying around with the thought for over a year, I launched my own Pure Romance business in January 2013! I can't tell you how excited I was to see a package on my doorstep days after purchasing my kit! The Pro was shocked to see me so excited! 

I know own and operate a business I can call my VERY OWN! I work to empower, educate, and entertain women about their bodies, sex drive, and enhance the relationship they currently have with their partner! With huge lines of bath & beauty, massage, lotions, lubricants, and bedroom products, I'm now the one-stop shop for all of your needs! :) Pure Romance is an in-home party business--this means you invite me into your home, I demo my products, ladies buy, and you receive FREE PRODUCTS! What lady doesn't love FREE PRODUCTS in lieu of having girl friends over for an UNFORGETTABLE GIRLS' NIGHT IN! 

Through this blog, I hope to reach out to women I may not see every day or even know, but in some way teach them something about being a woman! I also would like to provide a place for people to go who have questions on products--how they work, what they feel like, my thoughts and opinions. 

Product reviews can get a little personal and maybe TMI. In the case that something 'inappropriate' may come up, I will give you fair warning! At your digression, keep on reading or navigate away from the page! I'm sure you want all the juicy details, why else would you read a product review/sex blog?! :)

Thanks for visiting my blog! I do appreciate all who have helped me get where I am at this point in my growing business! 

I'll have more to come shortly!